Our first date

My life is quite busy with a variety of social and professional commitments, and as such, I can rarely accommodate short notice rendez-vous. When meeting someone for the first time, I prefer to have a few days prior to our rendez-vous to exchange emails and ensure our compatibility. If you are planning a trip to our fine city, I encourage you to email me the dates of your visit, and I’ll pencil it down until you firm up your plans.

When emailing me for the first time, please take the opportunity to share a little bit about yourself, your interests, and the kind of encounter that you are looking for. I am much more likely to be interested in meeting you if I can get a glance in your personality to determine our compatibility. Providing me with a reference from another companion or with a screening service ID such as Preferred411 will also go a long way in making me feel comfortable and safe in spending time with you.

For a first date, I always prefer to spend at least two hours together. While this is simply a preference, my experience tells me that our time together will be much more comfortable and enjoyable if we have enough time to relax, get to know each other a little, and not worry about the time flying by too quickly.

The pleasure I take in anticipating our date always starts with taking the time to get ready for our rendez-vous, from taking a long bath, moisturizing every inches of my body, to choosing the lingerie I will wear. I will meet you perfectly groomed and attired from head to toe, and I expect the same from you.

A man in a suit always has a certain effect on me, but I also appreciate a well put together casual look. If you must wear cologne, less is more. I will enjoy your kisses better if you are closely shaved, and your caresses will be much more pleasurable if your hands are soft and properly manicured. If you are visiting me at my place, I will offer you a shower and plush towels to freshen up.

I will have confirmed our rendez-vous by email the day before, with instructions on how to get to my place if needed and a phone number to contact me.

Because I know that life sometimes comes in the way of fun, I will ask you to send me a text a couple hours prior to our date to confirm that you will be present at the agreed upon time. This ensures that neither of us will be wasting time getting stood up. I will of course extend you the courtesy of contacting you promptly if something unexpected prevents me from meeting you.

Help me keep the girlfriend experience fantasy alive by taking care of the donation without prompting, within the first few minutes of our meeting. There really is no good way for me to ask without ruining the illusion.

If we are meeting in a public place (which is my preference for a first date – although I understand if you prefer the privacy of your hotel room or my love pad), please keep in mind that an envelop slipped in a book or a gift card is a little more discreet than presenting me with a wad of bills or a bank envelop.

Treat our date like you would any other blind date. Be your pleasant self, try to relax, and let me impress you. You would have taken the time to familiarize yourself with my likes and dislikes, be sure to respect those. Don’t hesitate to ask for something and to tell me what you like or desire. It’s always OK to ask, as long as you respect the answer given to you.

Hopefully, you will start longing for another date with me the moment I kiss you good-bye.